If you have personally been following my Face Book page or checked me out on Twitter, then you probably know that I have been facing several legal battles right now (of the personal nature)!
No one likes to receive a letter in the mail from an attorney of a pending law suit from an old flame, x-boyfriend, husband or wife, the neighbor across the street or even worse yet, from a friend. But it does happen and it did happen to me.
My wonderful letter came in the mail around November, right before Thanksgiving. When you can’t afford to hire an attorney or better yet, think you can handle the law suit yourself, well then you submerse yourself in law books and start the dreaded plunge of reading through laws, well actually if you want to really educate yourself, then you read everything there is to know about law and file your own motions and causes of actions..
Ok, this is where I have been. Buried deep inside every law book I could find to read, filing motions, causes of actions and the list just kept on growing and growing.. Until finally, no attorney would want to take my case because of so many papers filed through the court system. And in the middle of all of this horrible waste of my time.. ( I will get to that point in a few moments) I decided, as if I don’t have anything else to do, to write a 275 page book. Yes, I left off at 275 pages of my life and how I actually found myself tossed in to the court system back in August of 1998 and how it has directly impacted my life still to this day. It’s like one of those things, you only see in the movies, because no one you really know of, could of had this sort of crap happen to them in real life.. Well, this is me.. and yes, crap does filter in to one’s lives at different times that you have to deal with through a court system.
I would of like to have thought that when in court some 11 plus years ago that I would of been treated fairly, respectfully and despite having a paid attorney during those times in 1999, that something would of been filed, supporting my own cause of action or motions.. but this just didn’t take place. Now here I am all this time later, dealing with more legal issues that consumed my Thanksgiving, Christmas, my own wedding anniversary and stomped on my new 2010 celebrations. How in the world did I ever get in to all of this to begin with.. I couldn’t even start the process of repeating my words that I painfully typed out in a 275 page book.. but wait, why just 275 pages? Because I am not done with the legal crap yet! Yes, as I write another letter arrived in the mail today concerning one more unrealistic view from an attorney’s prospective, trying to uphold the client he is representing in court ! I was taken back when I actually found some quiet time, to myself and read through the two (2) pages of yet, yes, more bull crap that is not fact or even based on the truth, all to support his client..
I am still pro se in my own case here.. Who better then anyone else to represent myself, because I know the knuckle head behind the words of the motions and cause of actions that are filed through the court system. They are not the truth, but then again, they never have been about the truth, because had this been about the truth this whole time, then I wouldn’t be writing on my blog right now.
It’s terrible that one person can cause so much damage, yet be blind to the damage that is being created. Wrapped in lies, more lies and continual lies and think this is fun to waste the court systems time and money.. I don’t think it’s funny. There are far more other important things going on inside and outside of the window where I live.. not for this, not right now and not fun at all.
I left off at 275 pages of my book, because I am waiting for a direct answer from a higher power on how my book will end. Then and only then will I find the energy and strength to finish the book, pass the book along to a close friend for her to read and maybe want to make a movie out of my book..
My mom always said to me; sometimes bad things happen to good people, and never let the looser walk away a winner! Well, she also said, something good will come out of something bad..! Mom’s and wisdom..!!
I did respond to the brief filed in court a few days ago.. I tore my computer up and couldn’t type fast enough. I have come use to creating word doc pages for court right now, learning more about the laws that I thought were really meant for me. Yes, filed with the Supreme Court, the United States Attorney Generals Office, the Federal Government and of course, lets not forget Civil Liberties Union. Yes, reaching to those higher more powerful people, that can stand up for this solo pro se gal and speak up to the court that failed her..
If you have been the receiver of a letter in the mail, I completely relate to you, feel for you and understand the stress, the emotional trauma and the expense of trying to prepare for court, fight the battles.. It’s like a mini pro se mini war for me.. Something I am not about to surrender in to and wave my white flag for..
Despite trying to be somewhat a little humorous here, as I can’t let this all totally consume my every breath.. I fight the good fight, laugh when I can at myself,. Work hard and spend time with my family and loved ones. This is what is keeping me motivated, keeping me strong and keeping me going!
If you have faced some legal issues in your past, how did you make it through those days in court? You can reply directly or via email if you would like to communicate with me. I would love to read what you have to say, it’s important!
Until my next post.. Please feel free to search around this blog and find a topic that might spark some interest for yourself.
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